ISFJ – The Nurse

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Portrait

ISFJs are genuinely warm and caring, and believe in the goodness of people. They value harmony and cooperation, and are likely to be very sensitive to other people's feelings. People appreciate ISFJs for their ability to bring out the best in others.

ISFJs have a rich inner world that is not usually obvious to observers. They regularly check in on people who are important to them. The ISFJ has an exceptional memory for things that are important to their value systems. It is not uncommon for the ISFJ to retain the precise details of a facial expression or conversation years after an event has taken place, if the situation has left a lasting impression on the ISFJ.

ISFJs value security, kindness, and respect for traditions and laws. They don't like to do things a different way unless they are told why it is more effective than the established method.

ISFJs learn best by doing, rather than by reading or studying theories. Traditional methods of higher education, which require a lot of abstraction, are a chore for ISFJs. Once a task is learned, ISFJs apply it relentlessly to complete the mission. ISFJs are extremely reliable.

ISFJs have functional homes that are beautifully furnished. They make excellent interior designers. Because of their sensitivity to other people's feelings, they are very good at finding gifts that will please the recipient.

Even more than other types, ISFJs are extremely aware of their own internal feelings, as well as the feelings of others. They usually do not express their own feelings, which they keep inside. If they experience negative feelings, they can build up to the point of turning into firm, irreversible decisions. Some ISFJs learn to express their emotions, however.

ISFJs take their responsibilities very seriously. Because of this, people naturally tend to rely on them. ISFJs have a hard time saying "no" and can become overloaded. In such cases, ISFJs usually do not express their difficulties to others, because they do not like conflict and because they tend to put the needs of others before their own.

ISFJs need positive feedback from others. Without it, or when faced with criticism, ISFJs become discouraged, and can even become depressed. Under stress or in unfavorable situations, ISFJs tend to lose confidence in themselves.

ISFJs are warm, generous, and dependable.

Career

Ideally, ISFJs will choose a career in which they can use their people-observing skills to determine what people want or need. They will then use their organizational skills to create a structured plan or environment for achieving what people want. Their sense of space and awareness of aesthetics also gives them abilities in practical artistic projects, such as interior decorating and clothing design.

Possible careers:

Decorators

Designers

Nurses

Administrators and managers

Administrative assistants

Childcare workers

Social workers

Traders

Accountants

Home economics

Relationships

ISFJs value their personal relationships. They are usually very generous and people-oriented. They put the needs of others before their own. They take their commitments very seriously and seek out lasting relationships. ISFJs are extremely dependable. They sometimes have a hard time saying “no” when asked to do something.

Strengths

• Warm and friendly
• Likes to be of service, to please others
• Listening
• Fulfils his duties and obligations
• Excellent organizational skills
• Handles practical matters and daily needs well
• Manages money well, but conservatively.
• Takes commitments seriously and seeks lasting relationships

ISFJ Weaknesses

• Does not pay enough attention to his own needs
• Resistance to change
• Doesn't like conflict and criticism
• Does not express needs, which can cause frustrations
• Has difficulty letting go of a bad relationship
• Having difficulty moving on after the end of a relationship

Romantic relationships

ISFJs are committed to their relationships. They have very strong feelings. This is not obvious to others because they often hold things back. They put their feelings first. They are very faithful and loyal. They can even remain faithful to their deceased partners.

ISFJs tend to be very generous. This can backfire if they enter a situation where they are taken advantage of. ISFJs can then bottle up their feelings and form strong resentments against others.

Sexually, ISFJs view intimacy as a tangible way to strengthen their bonds. They also view it as a sort of duty and are likely to be more interested in pleasing their partner than their own satisfaction. Although ISFJs rarely express their love and affection, they do so through their actions.

ISFJs are very warm and selfless. The greatest gift a partner can give them is an expression of love and gratitude.

ISFJs don't like conflict. They don't express their feelings until they are pushed to a certain limit, after which they explode in anger and say things they later regret.

In general, ISFJs have a traditional family spirit. The well-being of their family and friends is a priority. They take particularly good care of their loved ones.

The ISFJ's natural partner is theESTP , or theESFP.

ISFJs as parents

Being a partent is considered a natural state and a duty for ISFJs. They care for them and teach them the rules of our society so that they become responsible and independent adults.

ISFJs may have difficulty administering punishment. But they overcome this discomfort because they feel it is their duty to instill healthy values in their children. They are likely to create clear boundaries and roles within the family.

ISFJ parents are not good at handling the situation when their children are growing up and going through difficulties. They tend to believe that it is their responsibility, and that they are not working hard enough to raise their children well. This may or may not be the case, but it usually is not.

In many ways, ISFJs make ideal parents. Their children will want for nothing.

L'amitié

Although ISFJs place family above all else, they enjoy spending time with friends and colleagues. ISFJs need to talk things over before making decisions, and this can be done through friends.

ISFJs enjoy spending time with most other personality types. ISFJs don't open up much, but they still need a few close confidants in their lives. Their preference then goes to xSFJs, or xNFJs to a lesser extent.

Friends of ISFJs value them for their warmth, trustworthiness, depth of awareness, and emotional understanding.

Financial independence

Although ISFJs manage money well, they do so in a very conservative manner. This is actually better because their Feeling side can lead them to make investment decisions that are too focused on fear or excitement. They are therefore not inclined to invest in the stock market. Furthermore, although they are predominantly Introverted, they have a great need for others, which comes from their Feeling side. A quest for independence would only make sense to them if it could allow them to be of service to others. However, such a quest would take them a lot of time, given their very conservative financial approach.

If you're an ISFJ, then you're not an ideal candidate for financial independence, although some of these readings may still interest you:

• Where does your money go?
• Emergency Fund
• Everything you need to know to become an early retiree

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